3. the horse whisperer - hijacking children into success - failure is not an option. Children often view themselves in a negative light - taking for granted the things they do well and focusing on the ways in which they "fail". As a result, you'll often see frustration and hear comments like: "I can't do this." They need our help to change that focus. Hold the mirror up to them in a way that reflects their successes.
Remember too that success can be found both in what is happening and in what isn't happening. When your child is upset or frustrated, it takes effort and control on their part to avoid escalating their behavior. This too is an opportunity for recognition and in doing so you can help your child view him or herself in a different way. You will be more likely to see them exercise even more control in the future.
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